Grady’s mom from the blog, “Ski’ing Through Life” wrote a post about how her son is not a
cause and deserves acceptance. Grady has Down Syndrome, but he’s a child first.
Read her post below from September 30, 2014:
30 days of Acceptance) // Day One Entry:
We welcomed a son in 2010. We named him Grady.
That same day the world named him, a cause.
The transition came after his arrival, as he grew and his needs/abilities were exposed. Well for
those who are willing to listen long enough to know that we need something, we are easily summed
up to just that… a cause.
It’s as honest as I can get here… I cannot do this alone…. the village is needed. Oh for the proud
and strong , it takes a lot of work to even write this much. We are worn down after a long week
and find our church to be last place we want to make a stink in or express our needs.
Well, I’ll say it…I need a safe place to land once in a while… It’s stink in’ hard out here..
Dr. appointments, therapists, struggles, IEP’s, evals and the day to day stuff that we often
don’t talk about because we figure your tired of hearing it…. Oh and Grady and his friends
they need to have a place like that too…warm, inviting where they too can learn about Jesus…
but most of all inviting. Oh if you saw how hard he works during the week, he needs it even more
so than me. It’s an honest assessment from our journey traveled. 4.5 years in. My heart before
you, motivations true and clear.
Stirred to share.
//It’s easier to stay home.
//”everyone has a cause they are pushing for” —-
On that gritty and dusty street in John 9:3 … Jesus proclaimed to the disciples in assurance as
only HE can that the man’s disability in front of them (in this case blindness) wasn’t because
of the sins of the father…
“but it was so that the works of God might be displayed in him”
Works of God! BEHOLD.
I pray for the same Church who rally’s alongside the pregnant, pleading for Life and to
embrace a prenatal diagnosis, prayer over bellies to resist the urge to abort to Rally once
more … those babies you rallied for, the ones your bumper stickers fight for… Many of them
make it through that battle… they arrive and some of them have needs. Are you still there Church?
The rally can’t stop there….
Behold!… the works of God are displayed in them. Rally for them still. Give them a soft place
to land at the end
of the week like you do for the typical kids. Include them. Embrace them. Make a way, like you
did for the crisis pregnancy.
A cultural shift inside the church starts with you…from the parking attendant to the top of
the Chain… it’s a beautiful song… one of acceptance, education and rallying for those. with
different needs, if people with disabilities are not at your church now (look around) they are
often at home. because it’s just easier that way.
The world got it wrong. He’s a boy, not a cause. He has needs worthy of acknowledgment, that
just shouldn’t have to be fought for. It was a given for Jesus, so Rise up Church and BEHOLD
Rally once again.
To follow Ski’ing Through Life and more of Grady’s journey, click here.
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